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Ben's Story

I am a parent of Benjamin, one of the sneakiest kids you have ever met. He will bounce around a room aimlessly while you are watching and the second you turn your back reprogram your computer keyboard so that you can't even type the sequence to clear it again. He can hold a remote control for less than 10 minutes and persuade your satellite dish to point to the outer planets. Ben convinced one day-care provider that he was too handicapped to use a spoon and fork. Just recently he used the trampoline in his day-care provider's backyard to bounce over a privacy fence into a neighboring yard so that he could play with a watering can.

Ben is also seven years old and severely autistic. If you have never worked with an autistic child before, please forgive me: I am not able to "summarize" his condition in a few sentences. The diagnosis of autism covers such a wide range of conditions that I rarely find two autistic people that seem to have the same disease. Instead, let me add these stories to your image of him: the only consistent "reward" for Ben, using ABA techniques, is still candy, the same reward system we started with when he was three years old. Ben can only sustain a few seconds of eye contact with an adult and even less with a peer. Ben has some behavioral issues centered around anxiety and he becomes amazingly anxious just being in the same room with another child, let alone a whole classroom full. And, the piece that is most disabling of all: his two year old baby brother has more language, both expressive and receptive, though Ben has received several years of intensive work around language issues.

It is that last issue, language, which makes inclusion seem a dirty trick. A classroom is a sea of language and it is only in the last weeks that I've been able to drop the term "non-verbal" for "minimally verbal" when describing my child's abilities. Ben is able to sit quietly in a chair and let too much stimulation roll over him without any reaction: is inclusion just a way of saving the school district time and trouble?

As a parent, the answer I have reached is "inclusion? Yes and no, please". Don't require full inclusion but grow towards it. Including Ben full-time in a classroom will be the pinnacle of Ben's school experience if we can reach it. Ben still spends a great part of his day within the resource room receiving one-on-one lessons that are critical to his education. But Ben also does one of his independent workbasket sessions within his classroom while the other students are doing independent work. He plays catch with a peer as a part of physical therapy during recess. He has a selected peer group that knows him well and they consider it an honor to be pulled out occasionally to help Ben work on learning to play with a peer. During his IEP meetings this year, I am proud that we, as a team, decided to remove the goal of including him in the standard physical education program because it was not working. Yet we also included a new goal to try to transfer a well-established skill into the classroom setting. We have a partial inclusion program that is working and my child is the winner.

There is no magic to our solution, just a lot of hard work. But as a parent, I can point out a few elements that I believe were critical to our success. First, preparation was vital. Ben already shared the same recess and cafeteria time with all the second-grade students, so they had already been informally "introduced". Before Ben went into his classroom, Ben's class had a series of talks that introduced Ben, both his strengths and his weaknesses. They talked about how each child in the class could be his friend and what they could do together. Ben's school identified a number of children in Ben's class as a core peer group. These children could help Ben work on peer interactions and play skills. Ben visited his classroom when it was empty to get acclimated. He knew where his desk was and wandered around the classroom to get comfortable in it.

Another key item was an approach that put Ben's educational goals at a priority. Ben does not spend any "empty time" in his classroom. We looked both at the goals in Ben's IEP and at the classroom teacher's daily plan to identify the activities that could be moved to a classroom. Ben's classroom teacher had a planned time for independent work, which would be quiet and yet allow Ben to move independently within the classroom. We targeted that time for Ben to join with his own work, an independent workbasket system.

Once we identified what to move, we had to tightly plan a transition. The workbasket system was first modified within his resource room to be a better fit in the classroom. Once Ben was successful with the changes, he practiced it within the classroom for weeks while his classmates were attending "specials". We planned how Ben could fail in that setting and how to recover. When we finally transitioned Ben to work in the classroom setting, everyone was ready.

But all of these pieces wouldn't work without Ben's team--his special education teacher, his aides, his classroom teacher, his principal and his parents--combining ideas and working out problems. Read back over what I have written and you will find that I use "we" even for some tasks I was only peripherally aware of at the time. Perhaps this is the most important piece of inclusion: making sure everyone feels included in the process.

Reprinted with permission from Inclusion...Yours, Mine, Ours


 

 

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School systems are responsible for assuring that transition planning becomes a component of the IEP beginning at age 14; however, it may be necessary to start transition planning much earlier in order to allow the student to achieve meaningful post-school outcomes. (From the Georgia Department of Education's Transition Manual)  Read more about the topic in the Roadmap Transition section.

 

 

 

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