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It’s never easy, but the rewards of advocacy make the efforts worthwhile,
say Atlanta parents Denise Quigley and Julia Bowen. They offer these tips
for other parents wanting to create the best opportunities for their child
with a disability.
1. Focus on dreams, not concerns.
2. Focus on your child and his childhood, not the disability.
3. Know the law and your child’s rights and use them.
4. Know your child’s strengths and weaknesses; do not let him be defined by
the
disability.
5. In case of conflict, focus on the problem, not the people. Be prepared to
compromise.
6. Be courteous, respectful and put forth your best effort.
7. Communicate in writing regularly with the teacher and school
administrators.
8. Teach children at an appropriate age to advocate for themselves.
9. Teach them self-determination, self-pride and People First Language.
10. Use People-First Language and teach it to others.
11. Connect with other parents or family members through support groups.
12. Provide fact sheets on your child’s special needs for all individuals
that work with your child.
13. Presume competence and have high expectations; provide tools for
success.
14. Ask for help and encouragement.
15. Give others the opportunity to connect with your child – their lives
will be richer for it.
16. Enjoy the moment – the years pass quickly.
Article courtesy of Atlanta Parent. Reprinted with permission.
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There is an
energy in us which makes things happen when the paths of other persons touch
ours.
from the Monks of Weston Priory
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